Im trying to come up with a theory of why guys like certain girls. and what makes guys fall for girls. It's going to be pretty complicated but i'm going to give it a shot.
First off, guys are 100% looks at first. They may have never even talked to a girl, even heard that she could be a bitch but that doesn't matter if we dont know them, all we care about is looks. We get interested based off of appearance. Then, as we get to know them things change.
Also, guys PREDETERMINE when they first meet a girl whether or not they have the potential to be datable. If a girl fails that test, she will never be able to be with that guy. A girl might pass at first, but fail later on. Therefore, girls have to make a good first impression. Theres girls that we know right off the bat that we won't date, and that is about 75%.
Often times i thought that guys want what they can't have, but tis not that simple. It varies, like when a girl seems easy and you think you have her at the palm of your hand, but suddenly she walks away from you and ignroes you, you think what did you do wrong and find yourself wanting her to come back to you. these are the girls that have you thinking quite a bit.
Guys tend to want girls that are unavailable too, because ti makes the prize higher. We want the best prize available, and sometimes the most valued prize are the ones that we just can't have. Not necessarily because they have a boyfriend but because of other conditiosn as well. im sure you can think of a few or put yourself in this situation.
I think guys lose interest when the girl just comes off as all too easy to impress, and shes clingy. We hate that shit. We also hate girls that are totally oblivious to us. guys want to be recognized or else how will we know whether or not to pursue. Also, its a turn off when theyre flirty with every guy.
I think the girls that are most liked are the ones who are very easy to get along with, yet act like only friends. The girls who we can flirt with laugh with joke with but they talk as if you two are only friends. guys find themselves thinking man this girl is awesome, but she would never date me.
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